Friday, July 24, 2009

kirbyourliterature: Author E. Lynn Harris dead at 54

Source: CNN.com
E. Lynn Harris, the author who introduced millions of readers to the "invisible life" of black gay men, was a literary pioneer whose generosity was as huge as his courage, friends said Friday.

E. Lynn Harris touched fans with his courage and his kindness, friends say.

Harris, 54, died Thursday night while on a business trip to Los Angeles, California, said Laura Gilmore, his publicist.

Harris wrote a series of novels that exposed readers to characters rarely depicted in literature: black, affluent gay men who were masculine, complex and, sometimes, tormented.

Keith Boykin, an author and friend, said Harris encouraged the black community to talk openly about homosexuality.

"We have a 'don't ask, don't tell' policy in the black community," Boykin said. "E. Lynn Harris encouraged people to ask and to tell."

In books like "Invisible Life," "A Love of My Own," and his New York Times best-selling memoir, "What Becomes of the Brokenhearted," Harris virtually invented a new genre: books that depicted black gay men living double lives.

Though Harris wrote primarily about black gay men, some of his biggest fans were black women. His books became staples in black beauty salons, bookstores and book clubs.

"It was hard to go on a subway in places in New York or D.C. and not see some black woman reading an E. Lynn Harris novel," Boykin said.

Harris was an unlikely literary pioneer. He was a former IBM executive who decided to write about his life. He started off in 1991 selling books from the trunk of his car to African-American beauty salons and bookstores.

He eventually became one of the nation's most popular writers with an estimated 4 million of his books in print.

Tina McElroy Ansa, author of "Taking After Mudear," met Harris at the beginning of his literary career when he was selling his first book "Invisible Life." She said they were both so poor they only had enough money to buy each other's book.

Ansa said she took Harris' "Invisible Life" home and was stunned by the time she reached page 20. She came across a scene where Harris depicted two black men playing in the snow with one another.

She immediately dropped the book, called Harris and told him she had never read such a scene before.

"I had never seen homosexual love in African-American men portrayed that way," she says. "It was playful, loving, and it wasn't hidden."

Years later, when Harris became successful, he thanked Ansa for her early encouragement.

"He gave me a string of pearls," Ansa said.

In 2000, Harris told the magazine Entertainment Weekly how important "Invisible Life" was for him.
''When I wrote "Invisible Life," it had to be the first book out of me -- it helped me to deal with my own sexuality,'' Harris said. "'For me, my 20s and early 30s were spent just hiding and running, because there was no one to tell me that my life had value and the way I felt was okay.''

"It's heartbreaking; he had such a generous spirit," said Tananarive Due, author of "Blood Colony."

"When I was just starting out, he flew me to an event out of his own pocket and put me up just because he thought more people should know my work," Due said.

Harris was as generous with his fans as he was with his friends, some said.

They describe an author who held dinner parties for aspiring writers at his home, loved meeting and hugging fans at book readings, and never seemed to let his fame change him.

"You could get trampled at an E. Lynn Harris reading," Ansa said. "People loved him."

Due said Harris would answer up to 200 e-mails from his fans each day. She said Harris had been a cheerleader in college "and a spirit of joy followed him through his life."

"He genuinely loved being around people and remembered names," Due said. "I remember seeing him at an event in Florida, and one woman in the crowd raised her hand and he said, 'Oh, Mary, you were here for my hardcover book signing.'"

Nonetheless, Harris had his share of personal pain.

He was born in Flint, Michigan, and grew up in Little Rock, Arkansas. In his 2003 memoir, he wrote about enduring abuse by his stepfather and an attempted suicide in 1990.

And he had critics. Some said Harris was a mediocre writer who stumbled on a winning literary formula. Boykin says Harris was stung by some of the criticism.

"He always said 'I'm not a James Baldwin,'" Boykin said, referring to the openly gay black author from the 1960s. "He was writing accessible literature for the masses."

Boykin said Harris received most of his criticism not from outraged straight critics, but people within the black community.

"He was hurt by some of the criticism from some black gay men who felt he wasn't portraying them accurately and others who thought he was telling too much," Boykin said.

In a 2003 Detroit Free Press interview, Harris said he resisted becoming an advocate for gay rights.

"It's such a small part of who I am, " he said. "It's what I do when I'm with my partner that puts this label on me. Most of my friends are straight. I tend to have a regular life, if you will."

Due said there has traditionally been a lot of pain associated with homosexuality in the black community. Harris took a little of that pain away with his life and his books.

"He really helped let the air in," Due said. "He helped us all breathe a little better."


Let the black community, not just the gay black community, mourn for this great literary loss. . .

kirbyournews: Family learned over Internet that son was killed

Source: CNN
Abayte Ahmed and her husband learned of their son's death in the most heinous fashion. A family acquaintance called and told them to click on an Internet site. There on the screen were photographs of their 20-year-old son -- the boy with the movie-star looks -- shot through the head thousands of miles away in Somalia.

Jamal Bana died in Somalia. Several missing Somali-Americans are believed to have fought there.

"He must have been somewhat disillusioned and indoctrinated, because he didn't have any clue about Somalia at all," his mother said, fighting back tears and barely able to speak about her eldest son.

Jamal Bana had been missing for months from his Minneapolis home. His family is still grappling with the circumstances surrounding his death in a land they had fled -- an African nation wracked by chaos and violence.

The FBI said Bana's death is part of a sweeping federal investigation into a recruiting effort in the United States by a Somali terrorist group called Al-Shabaab, which has ties to al Qaeda. More than a dozen young men of Somali descent have disappeared from the Minneapolis area in recent months. At least three, including Bana, have ended up dead in Somalia, community leaders say.

Bana was the kind of son a modest immigrant family pins its hopes on. He was the eldest of seven and studying engineering at local colleges. But last fall, his family said, he disappeared without any warning. A few days later, the phone rang. All that could be heard was a quick sentence. "I'm in Somalia," his mother quoted him as saying. He then hung up.

Communication from then on was scarce. In calls or text messages, the family said, Bana was guarded, as though someone was watching or listening to him.

On July 11, the family received the call telling them to look on the Internet. Bana's father broke down in tears when he saw the photos. One image was a close-up of his son's face, a bullet wound on one side of his head. Another showed the body being carried through the streets of Mogadishu on a stretcher.

His parents said they believe their son was brainwashed and recruited to fight in the civil war between Somalia's unstable transitional government and Al-Shabaab. Al-Shabaab remains entrenched in northeast Somalia and in sections south of Somalia's capital, Mogadishu, after fighting that has uprooted more than 200,000 people since early May, according to the United Nations.

The question immigrants in the United States want answered is: How have their youth ended up so far away?

One of the missing youth, Shirwa Ahmed, 27, blew up himself and 29 others last fall in Somalia in what is believed to be the first suicide bombing carried out by a naturalized U.S. citizen. Ahmed had traveled from Minneapolis. The attack raised red flags throughout the U.S. intelligence community and sparked an investigation by the FBI.

Just weeks ago, community activist Abdirizak Bihi lost his 17-year-old nephew, Burhan Hassan, in Somalia. Asked if his nephew had been kidnapped from Minneapolis, Bihi said, "They kidnap them in the sense of mental kidnapping, not physically. But they play a male role of mentor."
Bihi and community leader Omar Jamal said they hold one place at least loosely responsible: the Abubakar as-Saddique Islamic Center, the largest mosque in Minneapolis.

"All these kids missing, they all have one thing in common: They all participated in youth programs in that mosque," said Jamal.

Jamal and Bihi said leaders of the mosque, at the very least, allowed people to come around their facility and recruit young men to fight in Somalia -- a charge the head imam denies. CNN was not allowed inside the mosque, but was granted an interview with the imam at a different location.

"This is the baseless accusation really," said Sheikh Abdirahman Sheikh Omar Ahmed. "The mosque -- the mission of the mosque -- is to worship. And people come to worship and go. We don't have any control over what comes through everybody's mind or ideology."

Sheikh Ahmed said at least two of the young men who died in Somalia did worship at his mosque. But he said no recruiters came around the mosque to pull them away, and said his mosque does not support Al-Shabaab. He added that he has encouraged local families to keep their young sons from going to Somalia.

Federal authorities recently made their first arrests in the case, charging two Minnesota men, Salah Osman Ahmed and Abdifatah Yusuf Isse, with one count each of providing material support to terrorists and conspiracy to kill, kidnap, maim or injure people overseas, according to the indictment.

CNN could not reach Salah Osman Ahmed's attorney for comment. Published reports indicate he planned to plead not guilty. Isse has pleaded guilty and is cooperating with federal authorities, officials said. In court papers obtained by CNN, Isse's attorney said, "Mr. Isse will not be the last defendant indicted."

A local attorney involved in the case said at least seven Somali-Americans have been questioned by a grand jury. An FBI official said the bureau cannot rule out the possibility that some of the young men involved could be trained to carry out terrorist attacks on U.S. soil.

Meanwhile, CNN has learned more about how Shirwa Ahmed and Burhan Hassan made their way overseas. A travel agent in Minneapolis, who spoke on condition of anonymity, said the two men paid about $1,800 in cash for tickets to Nairobi, Kenya, or to Dubai, U.A.E. The travel agent said he thinks the two men then made their way to Mogadishu from those cities on a Somali carrier.

For Bana's family, it's all too much to bear. Omar Boley is a close friend who grew up in the same tribe as Bana's family. He said Bana's mother is having difficulty coping with everything that has happened in recent months.

"She doesn't want to hear the story again," he said. "She told me, 'Whenever I see someone talking about my son, I feel bad. I can't sleep. I feel sick. So this happened, nothing I can do. We pray for him.' That's what she said, and that's what I believe."


My thoughts and prayers goes out to this family, and I hope you all do the same. . .

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

kirbyourtechnology: iPhone Helps You Find Weed

Source: ABC News

Thanks to a new iPhone application, marijuana users with a prescription will be able to locate their connection--make that medicinal marijuana provider--with relative ease!

Launched by AJNAG (Activists Justifying the Natural Agriculture of Ganja), a web-based community advocating for medical marijuana, the Cannabis app takes those seeking medicinal marijuana through the entire process of obtaining it. The app is downloadable from Apple's store for $2.99.

Now, wow. I've seen it all. . .Really Apple??? I'm ROTFL as I'm typing this because I just can't believe it. . .I guess the government has finally found a way to identify all the weed heads. . .lol

How do you feel about this???

kirbyournews: 8 Year Old Raped by 4 Boys; Family Blames Her

In Phoenix, Arizona four boys between the ages of 9 and 14 are in police custody after they allegedly raped an 8-year-old girl.

The boys, ages 9, 10, and 13 are being detained at the Juvenile Corrections Center. The 14-year-old, Steven Tuopeh, has been remanded as an adult.

The rape happened about 5:15p.m. July 16 in a toolshed. Police say the girl was lured into the shed with the promise of chewing gum. The boys allegedly restrained her while taking turns sexually assaulting her.

According to police, the victim and the suspects are all from Liberia, West Africa, and appeared to have known each other.

The child is currently in Child Protective Services having been disowned by her parents after the assault. Detectives say her parents blame her for being victimized and bringing shame to their family.

All the suspects have admitted their involvement in the sexual assault. The 9-year-old is facing one count of sexual assault, the 10-year-old is facing charges of kidnapping and 2 counts of sexual assault, the 13-year-old is facing kidnapping and 3 counts of sexual assault, and Tuopeh is facing kidnapping and 2 counts of sexual assault.

OMFG!!! I can't begin to express my outrage at this incident and sadness for this little girl. I just pray to the Lord that she will be all right. . .


kirbyourmusic: Jazmine Sullivan sings "Home" from "The Wiz" at age 11



I'm a firm believer that Jazmine Sullivan is one of the most underrated artists out here. Not only is her voice immaculate, it's soulful too. So while I was random Youtube-ing, I came across her singing "Home" from The Wiz at the age 11. Now The Wiz is one of my all-time favorite musicals, and Diana Ross to me sung "Home" the best out of all the various Dorothys on Broadway (but of course my opinion is biased since I'm a hardcore Diana Ross fan, lol). So I was a little critical about how a child at age 11 could do justice to a song as deep as "Home". I mean, the lyrics evoke a longing and a passion that I feel that only someone with a little more experience (i.e. older) can bring out. But after seeing/hearing this Youtube video, there was no doubt in my mind that Jazmine Sullivan SAAANG that song. There were parts that I wanted to get up and shout because she just sung the hell out of it. I even had to say that she beat Ms. Ross (and if anybody knows me, that's a huge compliment). So please enjoy this song and this artist because it's only people like us that can get music back to the way it should be, and Miss Sullivan is definitely a prime example. . .


Tuesday, July 21, 2009

kirbyoureducation: Harvard professor Gates arrested


Okay. So I was catching up on my daily news and found this article. After reading it in its entirety I have a hard time believing what actually happened in this incident. Not only are the stories completely different, I'm finding it hard to believe the officer or the professor. According to the officers' report they responded to a call Thursday from a woman who said she saw "a man wedging his shoulder into the front door" at Henry Louis Gates, Jr.'s house near the university. Gates refused to identify himself to a police officer, claiming the officer was a racist.

Sgt. James Crowley, one of the officers involved in the incident, stated in the report that he told Gates he was investigating a report of a break-in at the residence. According to the report, Gates "opened the front door and exclaimed, 'Why, because I'm a black man in America?' "

Crowley wrote in the report that he warned Gates two times he was becoming disorderly. After Gates continued to yell and accuse him of racial bias, Crowley wrote he arrested Gates for "loud and tumultuous behavior in a public space."

Okay. So after this I felt like the officer was within his right to arrest this man. However, after reading Crowley's side of the story I was completely confused. . .

A statement by Gates' lawyer said that the incident occurred when Gates returned to his home after a trip to China.

Gates, accompanied by a driver, found the front door damaged. He entered the house with his key through the rear door. Then, he and and driver were able to force the front door open. An officer arrived and told Gates he was investigating a call about a breaking-and-entering at the residence.Gates identified himself at the officer's request.

"He [Gates] turned to walk into the kitchen where he had left his wallet. The officer followed him. Professor Gates handed both his Harvard University identification and his valid Massachusetts driver's license to the officer," Gates' lawyer wrote.

Ogletree's statement also said that Gates asked Crowley for his name and badge number several times without success.

Then, when Gates followed Crowley to the front door, Crowley said, "Thank you for accommodating my earlier request, and then placed him [Gates] under arrest," Ogletree said.

Now Gates has one of 20 prestigious "university professors" positions at Harvard University, and joined the faculty in 1991. He is considered one of the nation's pre-eminent scholars of African-American studies. In 1997, Time magazine placed him on its list of the 25 most influential Americans. So, pretty much, he's a big deal.

Now, I feel as if I'm a pretty fair-minded when it comes to issues like this. Having a father in law enforcement, I empathize with what police officers go through. And honestly, if I were to go off the statement alone, I would totally side with the police officers. However, given the intellectual prowess that this professor has, I find it hard to believe that he would do something like this. It would seem to be out of his nature (or at least I hope). And I'm not saying that just because someone is smart, they couldn't do such things. But I also think that as a police officer you wouldn't arrest someone for no reason (or at least I hope). So I find it hard to believe any of their stories. . .

If you want to read more about this story and read a copy of the police report click here.

What do you think???


UPDATE: All charges have been dropped against Mr. Gates

Sunday, July 19, 2009

kirbyourmusic: Johnny Dangerous


Okay. So I'm not usually into the whole "sex me, sex me" type of music but this song is so damn catchy!!! Although this song is about a year old I find myself constantly coming back to it. . .it seems to always find me. I first heard it on the Logo network's NewNowNext Music Show some time ago, and in the words of India.Arie "found myself immediately intrigued by him". . .lol. The artist is Johnny Dangerous, a Chicago-based entertainer. Johnny tackles the issues within his own experiences with censorship, the gay media, the War, suburban swingers and cheating lovers. If I had to sum up his style, it would be an electro-pop rap sound that frames Johnny's sex-heavy rhymes like a dirty sanchez on a '70s pornstar. The single I would like for you to hear is called "Dirty is the New Black". I really like him and hope you enjoy him too!

kirbyourinspiration: July 20th-26th

kirbyourconspiracies: Bow Wow and Lil' Mama are the same people!!!



**WARNING: IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR, GET A LIFE**

Okay, so I was having a conversation with one of my friends and we got on the subject of Lil' Mama. Now of course, that's an entire post all by itself. . .lol. Well, anyways I was thinking about how Bow Wow and Lil' Mama look so much alike. And then I realized, I have never seen Lil' Mama and Bow Wow in the same setting and/or room. And while I was Googling the both of them it was scary how much they looked alike! And then I started listening to the way they talked/rapped, and that was also very much similar. . .So, in spirit of all the conspiracy theories that are out there I've decided to make my own: Bow Wow and Lil' Mama are the same people. Bow Wow wakes up in the morning, puts his wig and make-up on to become Lil' Mama, goes and record a session of America's Best Dance Crew, takes off his wig and make-up, becomes Bow Wow and raps at night. I mean, think about it: He's not as hot in the music industry as he once was, and he does have bills to pay. . .lol. If I could pull off a wig and make-up and make extra income I would. . .

What do you think???

kirbyourpolitics: President Obama Celebrates LGBT Pride month @ the White House


The President and First Lady hosted the first-of-its-kind LGBT Pride Month reception at the White House yesterday. On the heels of the 40th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, the reception brought together LGBT families, volunteers, community leaders, lawmakers and heads of LGBT organizations to celebrate the LGBT community.

In his remarks, the President stressed that although we’ve made progress towards equality and fairness for all, there are still more challenges to face:
Now this struggle, I don't need to tell you, is incredibly difficult, although I think it's important to consider the extraordinary progress that we have made. There are unjust laws to overturn and unfair practices to stop. And though we've made progress, there are still fellow citizens, perhaps neighbors or even family members and loved ones, who still hold fast to worn arguments and old attitudes; who fail to see your families like their families; and who would deny you the rights that most Americans take for granted. And I know this is painful and I know it can be heartbreaking.
And yet all of you continue, leading by the force of the arguments you make but also by the power of the example that you set in your own lives -- as parents and friends, as PTA members and leaders in the community. And that's important, and I'm glad that so many LGBT families could join us today. (Applause.) For we know that progress depends not only on changing laws but also changing hearts. And that real, transformative change never begins in Washington.

To read the transcript and/or watch the video follow this link:
http://www.whitehouse.gov/blog/Celebrating-LGBT-Pride-Month/

kirbyourmusic: The Most Manufactured Album in the History of Music. . .


Now I love me some Rihanna. I feel like she has a wonderful voice, beautiful, trendsetter, and very talented. However, Rihanna's album include the "elite" of production and songwriting. The list includes:

-The Dream (writer/producer for Rihanna smash hit "Umbrella")
-Tricky Stewart (producer for Beyonce's "Single Ladies (Put a Ring on It)")
-The Neptunes (they need no explanation. . .)
-Ryan Tedder (co-writer/producer of Leona Lewis' "Bleeding Love" and OneRepublic frontman)
-Max Martin (producer of Kelly Clarkson's "Since You Been Gone" and "Behind These Hazel Eyes" as well as Katy Perry's "I Kissed a Girl")
-Soulja Boy ("elite?" well i don't know about this one)
-Justin Timberlake (singer/songwriter/producer)
-Drake (new, hot emerging artist)
-Sean Garrett (composed Chris Brown's "Run It", Usher's "Yeah", Ciara's "Goodies", and Beyonce's "Diva" and "Ring the Alarm")
-Timbaland (legendary music producer)
-Stargate (collaborated with Ne-Yo for Rihanna's "Unfaithful" and Beyonce's "Irreplaceable")
-Kanye West
-Tyson Ritter (All American Rejects' frontman)
-James Fauntleroy (writer for Jordin Sparks feat. Chris Brown's "No Air" and Ciara's "Love Sex Magic")
-Jay-Z (Hip hop legend)

Now this is the most expensive album in Def Jam's recording history. I hope that all goes well with Rihanna and this album proves to be groundbreaking in its own right. However, I have one question:
When did music become not who the artist is but who they are working with (i.e. producers, songwriters, etc.)?

Although in my few years in this Earth, I remember a time when it was all about the artist. I remember anticipating a Mariah Carey single just to hear her hit that whistle tone. Or anticipating the amazing multi-octave range of Whitney Houston. Nowadays, it's not who you are but who you are working with. You're a nobody if you are not working with the best producers in the business. . .

Has the originality of the artist become secondary to a sure-fire hit? Is music essentially as Jamie Foxx said in Dreamgirls "meant to sell"?

Now I wish no ill will toward Rihanna and I will be buying her album when it is released, but I hope that all that "star power" doesn't outshine the talented Miss Rihanna. . .

But while you mellow on that for a bit, enjoy her new song "Te Amo" which is set to be released on her new album (whose name has yet to be released)